Well, it looks like Gem City is out. I called to today to ask about
housing, and to see why they haven’t answered my emails in the past
week.
I was given the housing persons husband, I think he is the Dean. He
was very loud and yelling at me. Even though I was told that if I had
any questions or concerns at all, just to ask and they would answer
them best they could. (I guess what I got was their best)
A question I ask about was on the one thing in all the emails that
most bothered me, and had never received an answer. Because of that
one question, about the instructor, I was told by this man, I think
the dean, that I am not allowed to question, criticize or in anyway
try to question the school. He also said he has no intention of
arguing with a student about school policies or actions. I had to
remind him I’m not a student. He said he didn’t feel he had to
explain anything to me either. He could do what he pleased.
And I am not accepted at the school now.
That question about the instructor came up in many of the emails I
received from many different forums. And I even started out saying
"I don’t know if its true, but I had heard that if you don’t stay on
the good side of the instructor, you will not get taught"
For those of you who emailed me here, don’t worry, no names or
indication of anything will ever be out. I don’t want anyone
thinking its not good to tell others about what they thought of a
school. This is a free country after all.
Not a graceful question, not a happy one, but they said to ask ANY
question or Concern at all. And this was the one I found most
important as I am not paying them to win brownie points, I am paying
them to teach me. If I get out of line, ok, but just cause someone
doesn’t like the way I dress or look, no.
I do understand that if I was working for them, I would never ask
such a question. If they were paying for my schooling, I would never
ask this. If I was apprenticeship, I would never ask. But when I am
paying them! YES I WILL ASK IT.
I feel that’s like you hire a contractor to build you a house, and
your not allowed to question anything they say, do, or charge you
for. They are providing a service, and I am to pay. If they wont
allow a couple un flattering questions, what kind of teaching
institution is it.
Would a jeweler in business treat a paying customer like this? I
would not think so, and this school is a business, and I was a
customer.
Or am I the one with the problem? Do I really need an attitude
adjustment as the dean told me? Was it wrong for me to question a
school that I was wanting to attend? If I was wrong, I will publicly
apologize, as I have done and said wrong things before. But things
normally get talked out. But to be insulted and told I have not
rights to question their school? He also said he has no intention of
arguing with a student about school policies or actions. I had to
remind him Im not a student. He said then he didn’t feel he had to
explain anything at all to me. He could do what he pleased.
2 weeks ago I was told I was accepted, all I needed was voc rehab
and financial aid finalized. Today I am told I ask a question they
didn’t like so Im out. Lucky for me I live in Missouri, were its
legal to tape phone conversations, and because of my condition, and
medication, my memory isn’t the greatest, so I tape important things.
I taped this as I thought I would be getting on housing
in the area. But now I am glad I did it as I am sure they will deny
being so rude and so mightier than thou like. At least if they want
to sue me for slander they wont be able to do it. Slander is if you
tell a lie, I have the tape. Also, I have nothing, so what can they
take, my blood?? But I guess they feel they can do what they want,
they will try. ( am I bitter today, a little. Wouldn’t know why?)
I don’t know why they tell people to ask questions if they only will
allow approved questions. That is not what I would think a school
should be like. And I cant see myself going to a school that I now
know will probably be harassing me the whole way and I have no right
to question anything. I shouldn’t have to go on probation or anything
else because I did nothing but ask a question. Heck I even offered to
try to help if they wanted it, he said he considered that I was
trying to control the school by saying this.
They truly are behind in the times in more ways than one. I know I
am going to avoid this school like the plague. I just don’t
understand why they told me to ask about anything at all, when that
obviously isn’t their policy, as this person of authority at Gem City
told me today. Not like I was rude about it, just said I have heard
this and wondered about it.
I guess I really should thank my Voc Rehab consoler as she is the
one who told me to research the school fully to make sure I wanted to
go. If she wouldn’t have told me to do this, I would not have found
out what I did. And nothing in the emails would have stopped me from
going, only the way they responded to a question.
This is my personal experience, and I don’t know if this is how they
treat everyone there. But just thought since I started this thread,
I should at least tell everyone how it ends.
Personally, I would think many times before going, but that is only
my opinion and based on my experience. You should make up your own
minds.