Have I missed something here? I think that that the poster used
the term without any malice intended.
In these days, when using such emotionally charged words as “bigot”
and “intolerance”, it is difficult if not impossible to do so
without conveying malice, even when that is not the intent. Those two
words are generally not accompanied by a warm, friendly smile, if you
take my meaning.
That said, I’m not sure I agree that having the opinion that poorly
made jewelry that is either not finished or has haphazardly applied
finishes is unattractive actually makes someone a bigot, aesthetic
or otherwise. I also don’t think that having and stating such an
opinion makes one intolerant. It’s my observation that more and more
lately, such words are usually used to disarm and shut up someone
with whom we disagree; a tactic which has proven in modern politics
to be quite effective. I mean who wants to think of themselves (or
worse, risk that others may consider them) as an intolerant bigot,
even if it is only about the aesthetics of jewelry? The charge of
being called a bigot or intolerant is somewhat indefensible, it has
become kind of a modern version of “when did you stop beating your
wife?” People that use those terms usually know exactly the position
they are putting their opponent in, and do so on purpose, either to
deflect attention from the issue at hand or otherwise put their
opponent on the defensive. Pretty much a cheap shot if you ask me.
I make a wedding band that is a bare bones flat 7mm save for a
very prominent weld bead at the top. Am I wrong for not faring down
the bead? It takes a lot more time to get the weld bead that I want
and that works with the ring. It is most definitely an aesthetic
decision.
My guess Andy, is that were you to make such a ring, your attention
to detail would show. After all, a plain, bare-bones band shows any
fault in craftsmanship quite plainly. I would also venture to guess
that you would completely finish such a ring before applying the
bead, making it obvious that it was intended to be placed there,
probably with the intent of using the grimy, industrial feel of the
weld bead as a counterpoint to a nearly perfect, finely finished
band.
That is quite different from some of the work that I have seen
recently and that is getting a lot of press these days. Much of that
class of jewelry is just plain poorly made, with uneven, unlevel
stone setting, gappy, irregular bezels, plier, file and hammer marks,
lumpy, pitted and obvious solder joints and other forms of poor
craftsmanship, all finished up with an equally unprofessional and
unimaginative finish, then marketed as the newest, freshest most
beautiful examples of modern high-craftsmanship, exhibiting exquisite
hand-wrought detail. You’ve been around the block Andy, you know what
I’m talking about. You know the difference.
I was going to say that I don’t really care if someone considers me a
bigot because I uphold a more strict standard of what constitutes
decent jewelry, but I really must say that I do care. I don’t like
being called a bigot, even if it is said with a smile. I also think
that any intolerance on display here is not necessarily only on the
part of those of us that hold higher standards. Unless, as is
becoming more and more common, any questioning of, or calling out of
a lack of standards, or having an opinion that reflects any
disagreement with anything someone might feel, is considered bigotry
and intolerance. If that’s the case, and being able to define,
discern, and then point out the difference between using a hammer
and coarse sandpaper to make a half-assed attempt at hiding poor
craftsmanship and a carefully applied, aesthetically pleasing
non-traditional finish makes one a bigot, then call me a bigot. I’ve
been called worse.
In any case, I’m not lowering my standards regardless of what is
currently acceptable in the trade, or what pejorative is used to
describe my opinion of that class of jewelry. Nor will I buckle to
the opinion (no matter how popular that opinion might become) that
such work is anything more than what it is. The emperor is as naked
as a jay bird, and I don’t mind saying so.
Dave Phelps