in my experience of sharing the exchange between
professional people roughly break into 3 categories.
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“scratch my back and I will scratch yours”,
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“I won’t scratch your back but expect you to scratch mine” and
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“I will scratch your back even if you can’t scratch mine”
I think here at Orchid, a lot of us fall under the 3rd category,
would be impossible to tell how many percent without a blind survey.
So many people are willing to share their knowledge and experience
without expecting a thing in return.
I have met many people under the 1st category - they would feel the
waters first and see if they can get something out of you in exchange
for their before sharing any themselves.
Then there is the 2nd category which I find the most annoying - they
ask you questions about your techniques, your casters, etc, and when
you ask them the same question back, you get “I couldn’t possibly
share that info, it’s confidential” or “My caster is so busy that if
I give you his contact he won’t have the time for me anymore”. I have
had that happen to me. Boy, was I pissed off!
Before I had that experience, I fell under the 3rd category, happily
blabbering out any info that I thought the other person might find
useful or helpful. Now, however, I am trying to see if the other
person would be willing to share as well. I am not exactly under the
1st category, because I would share with a person that is just
starting out and can’t give anything back. I just don’t want to share
with people that are trying to fish out my sources, knowing in
advance that they won’t share with me theirs.
Amery -
I understand the problems you have had with recommending your
casters and your unwillingness to be in the middle of them. But
wouldn’t it be better if you asked your casters and warned them in
advance too that you are not responsible for any bad customers? If
you don’t give their contact to anybody now, they might be missing on
some good customers as well.
Ian -
I find people are more willing to share their trade secrets with
customers than with other professionals. I guess they don’t feel
threatened that their ideas will be stolen. I often don’t disclose
the fact that I’m a jewelry designer when I’m admiring jewelry in a
gallery. I’ve had several times people refuse to tell me how the
piece is made, as if I’m there to steal their designs and ideas! I
find it insulting as I have many more ideas than time to implement
them. When being a regular customer - I’ve never had a problem of my
questions not being answered.
Ruslana
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